Beware The Liberal Mind Police
I can't even believe I typed that as a title to a blog entry.
I can't even believe what happened today.
I've been banned from a message board because someone there read my earlier blog entry and decided they knew exactly what and who I was talking about, that I was being mean to someone there, and should thus not be permitted to visit said message board. No one contacted me to even try to find out if I meant what they thought I meant. There is no rule in their guidelines of which I am aware that says you must follow their rules not only when on their board but apparently everywhere. Nonetheless, I am banned.
Talk about your mind police. Welcome to Big Brother and 1984, gang!
So, since I'm going to be prosecuted, tried, and convicted on hearsay and mind reading, I'm now going to come clean and start actually naming names so that we can at least be clear about whom I talking about when.
First and foremost, let's be clear. The message board is called CircleOf. As I understood it when I was first invited to join, it was created in reaction to perceived political biases and censorship of opinions on RealityTVWorld that led to several liberal posters being banned for violating the guidelines of the board, often during heated political discussions. Other posters were invited along and I was invited by someone, I don't really remember who. I knew and liked several of the banned posters and sympathized. I have (or, at least, thought I had) similar political convictions. I didn't spend as much time there as I do on RTVW, but I usually enjoyed myself there.
But then I once made a couple of snarky remarks about the Steelers and pizza. I even blogged about how shocked I was about the reaction of one particular poster regarding my football and team and my city in addition to said pizza opinion. Said poster then went on a real screed against me. In a way that was truly mentally and emotionally unhinged, considering the relative importance of football and pizza in the world. For that person, it went beyond the sports/pizza and pretty much tainted anything I said in any thread in which we both posted. If you're interested, the crazed poster is True. She doesn't like me. I really don't care about her. I'm not sure why we just couldn't keep it at that. I wrote about it here and that was the end of it for me. I just stayed away from the bitch after that.
Two times there, Landru (one of the "moderators") warned me to be nice. I assumed (but I was apparently wrong) both times that I got the warnings they were in reaction to my replies to some of the insults that were being slung at my football team (which, incidentally, had just won the Super Bowl to almost the entire board's chagrin) and my city. My reaction to those warnings was to stay away from the sports forums there altogether. And to never reply to a thread begun by True and to never post a reply to any of her posts. I thought that settled it.
Well, apparently I was wrong. Seems that, because some of the people on CircleOf read my blog, my entry about my little dust up with True was remembered. And, for some completely unknown reason, I can only assume that today's banning stems from that. I am unclear as to why anyone assumes that my little riff on karma has anything to do with someone to whom I pay no attention to and whom I care absolutely nothing about, but the powers that be at CircleOf have decided it does.
Anyway, just to clarify for those of you who may be wondering at this point? Karma hit my ex-best friend who was one of the women having an affair with X. She has been fired from her six-figure VP position and may be prosecuted for Medicare fraud. I don't give a flying fuck if I can't post at CircleOf if this is the reward.
10 Comments:
Well I'm just glad it wasn't me that pissed you off. It wasn't me was is? Tell me is wasn't me *end Cingular commercial*
Wow, banned for a personality conflict. If for that I'd been banned from OT 2 years ago. To this day we exist in quiet.
Go Steelers!
That's just amazing. I think I'm a member of that board. I dont post there or even visit but it's still just unbelievable. I dont imagine I'm well like there or OT but I like me and that's all that matters. I'm sure you like you, so fuck em.
Interesting what can happen when people ASS-U-ME!
I've lurked there once in a while, but never felt comfy jumping in there.
Well personally I think that just plain sucks! Reason 1. This is your blog you can say and do whatever you like here! Reason 2. Free speech in your blog...see above! Reason 3. As long as you were adhering to the rules of said board, listened to the moderaters etc. there should have been no banning...no reason to ban someone for their thoughts typed out in THEIR blog!
Well, thanks for the support, guys.
I've come to a revelation lately about my Internet relationships. One is that I have to keep in mind that, no matter how much of an illusion I have that I know these people, I don't really. And, except for those who have interacted with me in several different types of situations, I should not consider everyone who says they are my friend to be my friend.
In general, I have never done that quite so naively. I have a certain few that I'm pretty sure are terrific peeps (you guys are in that group!). I have a certain few I've actually met in person.
There are a couple who I've spoken to extensively on the phone and a few via email. Some of the people who were involved in my banning from CircleOf would fit in this group. And, since I've decided I'm going to be totally honest about naming names, I'll say that these include Landru and Dweeze. I thought I had a close and quite friendly relationship with both of them. I can say that I never, never, never thought either of them would do something like this and never even give me a chance to address their concerns.
Just goes to show you, though, that you never really know who your "friends" are deep down inside. And all the more reason for me to be thankful for OT where this kind of draconian crap won't happen.
I'm going to refer to that place as the KGB from now on. If I'm willing to call my right wing opponents Nazis or the SS, then I have to be willing to be evenhanded in my insults.
Sorry to hear it. I've never even tried to start up an account there, as I know that a few of the mods would like nothing better than to ban me on sight.
Follow-up question: are you the first to be banned from CircleOf? You're the first I've heard of. That's like... award-worthy!
I got invited...but I really had no reason to join.
I think that it is somewhat amusing though that you got banned without any discussion or for what you said on your blog, when it is my understanding that that place was created so that people COULD speak more freely.
So sory dear, but really stay where peeps love ya.
LOL, Dave! If I'm the first, I'll take a little bow!
As far as I know, I'm the first banned. Though, I don't know that for sure. Rudy was coming there a while, rather bravely I thought, but got pretty much flooded by negativity and some rather mean replies (though we all know how Rudy likes to infuriate so he bears some responsibility to the reactions). It's possible he could have been banned. Since I'm apparently not even allowed on the site to read, I don't know if they let anyone know if you're banned.
And *smooches* to you, Syren. You're right. I was under the impression that people were meant to be a little freer in their ability to speak. I am just stunned by the whole thing. Stunned.
Like syren, I thought that CircleOf was founded so people could speak more freely. The rules definitely seem to be different there than at the site where many of us first met: in addition to calling a spade a spade, members of CircleOf are allowed to bash each other, at least that was the impression I got when some peeps explicitly called other peeps "fascists" and "fuckers" (and not in a nice way) and whatnot. I know that I have seen some very frank comments (completely deserved, I thought) directed at certain people, especially those with political views on the right (and one or two of them are indeed fascists). I admire and respect most of the folks at CircleOf, but I do find this disappointing.
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